The third pillar

The third pillar is person ability.  This is another pillar like hard work which you develop.  This pillar is the ability to get along with and work with others.  I see this as a lazy mans secret to success.  This is talked about in the book How to make friends and influence people by Carnegie.  It is a skill if perfected can get others to do everything for and be thankful for the opportunity.  Sadly this is the pillar used by politicians to make people thankful they are messing up there life.  If you have this pillar you need the government the least.   Please share your thoughts.